I help people because I'm bored or want to show off. Sometimes I'll help if I expect something in return. (Yay ulterior motives!) I'll also help if I like the person. But I don't see that behavior as "unusual". If you delve into the philosophy of it, you'll realize that we're all selfish by nature. So, I'm just being incredibly honest. I would be lying if I said I helped people "out of the goodness of my heart". Even if you *do* claim you're doing it out of kindness, you're not. Underneath it all, you're doing it to make yourself feel good.. or you expect the favor to be returned. So, that's a selfish behavior. Nothing is truly selfless
But yeah, it has nothing to do with BP for me. 2 different psychologists have told me I have an antisocial personality because I rarely feel guilt
Well, one psychologist told me yesterday: "You have a lot of antisocial traits... Wow, you're quite the rebel, aren't you?!"
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