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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
Youthful is not the same as rude or immature.
And it does seem like she will always play mind games with you, especially since its her version of being "human".
So either accept this woman likes to destroy and toy with your ego, without a care for how it affect you and accept her as is.
Or accept that this is how she is and move on.
Either way you have to accept that she wont change, people don't just magically do so, especially not at her age.
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Agree with acceptance and I guess it's a choice on how I want to perceive her. As i said before, I see a lot of myself in her. And furthermore the things she triggers in me, in an unusual way, help me grow as a person. As long as i own my feelings and don't blame her. I learn from the experience. In a sense, she pushes me to look inward at myself. And in an odd way I am grateful for that.
Respectfully disagree about people changing at this point in life. From personal experience I feel I have changed a lot in the last 4 years. I hit a low and sort of "woke up." In a sense, I got myself in a situation which of forced me to surrender, to let go, to accept all that "is." As a result I approach things more compassionately than I have in the past.
But I hear you and appreciate you sending advice to protect me. Thank you for your kindness.