I didnt think (or feel!) you were being judgmental. I think its just two different pathways, probably literally - left brain and right brain. And IF there is some unfinished business - unintegrated feelings - that got lit up, the logic neurons dont necessarily automatically connect to the emotion neurons. Like youve got apples on one side of your head and oranges on the other. Ya gotta add some raisins to make an integrated chutney!