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Old May 06, 2016, 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted by zeninfinity View Post


Respectfully disagree about people changing at this point in life. From personal experience I feel I have changed a lot in the last 4 years. I hit a low and sort of "woke up." In a sense, I got myself in a situation which of forced me to surrender, to let go, to accept all that "is." As a result I approach things more compassionately than I have in the past.


If you re-read my post, you'll see I used the term "magically change"...


I didn't say people never change, or cease to change after a certain age.


My apologies if I was unclear, but what I meant is without provocation.


Nothing you've said or done has inspired or provoked her to change her behaviour, she describes her behaviour as simply being human, thus I don't see her changing of her own volition.


You said it yourself when describing your own changes, you were provoked. Even I myself, I was drastically provoked into changing my maladaptive behaviors into healthier ones.
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