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Originally Posted by granite1
ihave a huge family around me and they all hate me . i dont know what i can do it is such a lonely and hurtful feeling. i fit in no place and i cant talk to my T about it because she thinks i just dont need any of them . she doesnt understand . i try and talk to her about all my pain around them and all she pretty much says ,why? you dont need them... YES I DO. im so alone
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Do they hate you or do you hate (some of) them? I agree, it IS a lonely and hurtful feeling to have to be around them when they dont really include you in, but they invite you anyway. I feel like, with my extended family, we have finally gotten to a more truthful place. Which is, i dont have a place in any of their dynasties. My mother's "dynasty" looks like Charlie Brown's Christmas tree compared to my aunts'. Not even that big! But it is what it is.