Thank you Tunia for your reply. Oops--I'm sorry I brought up that I feel I don't belong-- really don't wish to bring down the atmosphere here--- I should be careful what I say.
Yes, why didn't I think of that!

I could ask the receptionist-- she knows EVERYONE! thank you, thank you!
Saw that guy again today, he said, "Hi Mandy, how's it going?" and then he put his arm around me-- yikes!!-- this stranger- touching me!! I've got to find out who he is for sure!..... going to get right on that-- thanks so much.
Tunia-
mandy