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Originally Posted by granite1
ihave a huge family around me and they all hate me . i dont know what i can do it is such a lonely and hurtful feeling. i fit in no place and i cant talk to my T about it because she thinks i just dont need any of them . she doesnt understand . i try and talk to her about all my pain around them and all she pretty much says ,why? you dont need them... YES I DO. im so alone
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i know you feel like you don't fit in, but what happened to make you fele this way?
Also, i think your T is trying to get you to see that having contact with your mother or step-father or father (i can't remember if they are both alive?) is hurting you--they still abuse you and treat you like s-h-i-t, so the safer answer for you might be to take a step back from them. But, i don't know your situation, and am not saying you need to, just that it might be healthier for you, because when you are triggered by your mother, you see everything in mother-colored lenses; and those lenses are dirty and faulty and there is no way you can see clearly with them on.