I don't know why but it seems like because we were abused or traumatized once that we then start to attract toxic people into our lives. I recently had to oust a toxic person from my life who had been a friend for over a decade. And after her toxicity was revealed, the friendship was over just like that. It was an awful ordeal.

I wish there was a better way to tell who was toxic and who was relatively healthy. But it's so impossible. THe toxic ones are so manipulative and charming at first.

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