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Originally Posted by Talthybius
The way you describe yourself, no one finds that attractive. It is a tricking game. You have to trick people into liking you. Knowing your own value means nothing. You have to project a fake self into the world and hope people like it.
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This isn't going to be helpful for people who want to be accepted for who they actually are. I don't think it's a good idea to say to project a facade and hope people will like it. People ALWAYS SEE THROUGH IT.
I see some terrible people get married, have long term relationships, families, etc. These are terrible people who make others miserable at work, put people down, keep up appearances, etc. If THEY don't have to project a facade of niceness or decency, why should those who are nice and decent stoop to their level just to get a few more people to like them?
Here's the deal-- people suck. They really do. There are always going to be people who don't want to be friends, much less romantic partners. IMO, there's always people who are very similar and would like each other, but finding them can be a challenge.