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Originally Posted by black-roses
I am unable to attach myself to others without feeling terrified and completely loosing my identity...
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But why would you even want to attempt to attach to others if you truly believe....
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Originally Posted by black-roses
... that all guys are selfish, heartless people that can't love you unless they are getting things out of you. I don't really believe their is such thing as nice guys just guys that hide their true intentions.
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Forgive my confusion but you are contradicting yourself quite a bit in this thread, so that makes it hard for me to formulate a helpful response.
For what it's worth, I too had a problem with losing myself (still do and am working on it) boundaries are key, and a therapist can help with that.