Yes he does.

He has mentioned that I'm doing awesome work, and points out any progress I've made when I'm describing a new event and how I handled it. He's said that he's never had a client quite as dedicated and determined as I, that he admires that about me, that I am incredibly intelligent, interesting and enjoyable to work with.


He tells me when I look "nice" or "snazzy today" he's even mentioned that I am attractive, well tbh he asked if I knew I was attractive, (it was within a therapeutic context, discussing my view of myself and my zero self-esteem)...


Idk how to receive any of it, I just stare out the window and usually try to bite back tears.


I come from an extremely invalidating upbringing, so its very important that my T validates my progress and affirms certain things for me, even though its still very awkward for me to receive it, and not just from him, but anyone and everyone. Even my own bf or bff.


I'm sorry your T doesn't verbalize any affirmation or compliment, seems kind of detrimental to you at this point.