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Originally Posted by SoScorpio
Oh, no I don't mean my boyfriend, sorry if that was unclear, I think our relationship is pretty good, and I love that we're like best friends, but I also don't want to put too much on him. And obviously if I'm mad at him but not ready for a constructive discussion, I'd like to have a trusted friend to vent to. And I'm fine with being vented to, I take it as a sign that someone trusts and respects me. I just want a good girl friend I can talk to and not have to filter myself too much.
I'm not looking for a therapist in a friend, I don't expect them to solve my problems or guide me, I just need someone to talk to, who likes talking to me and knows I'll be there for them too. If I need a kick in the butt they will give it. That sort of friend.
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Good girlfriends take time. Or sometimes you need to make the moments happen. They come with memories of life's experiences.
Here works, on PC, yet, don't sell yourself short in real life. My latest two closest confidantes, we are all very busy and one of us at any time is free to set the date and place, no excuses to bow out ..whether it be coffee or lunch or even a drink before returning to the busyness of life. It's important. I have another friend, although not in that circle, that plans vacations. It's ok by me that I'm not in that circle, couldn't commit if I wanted to type of friend.