A friend was hurting and I comforted him but then I went on to thinking how his hurt affected me. I was going to say something but then I grew up a little and just let his feelings be his. I am 52 years old and some of my reactions are like a 2 year old. I don't have time to beat myself up, I have to accept, learn, and move on to 3 years old. One of my goals in life was to become wise and dignified, a substantial person. Do I change my dream or do I laugh at myself?