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Originally Posted by DarknessForever
Thank you, JustShakey. I'm trying. I am surprisingly calm in the fact that it is not my fault. I think me and my siblings might have caused tension, but I know the problems were already there before we had these problems. It's just hard to see my mom in pain. I just wish I could take it away from here. And, at this point, my mom says she just wants him to figure it out so she can get on with her life. It hurts, but this way, she can heal.
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(((Darkness)))
It's perfectly normal for kids to cause tension - it's part of growing up, and becoming an emotionally healthy adult, and something that most parents expect when they choose to have children. Don't ever feel bad for being a kid 
It's very sweet of you to want to take away your mom's pain, but as a mom I can tell you that the best way to do that is to focus on 'doing you'. You can't make your mom's problems go away (only she can do that), but you can make her proud of you by doing the very best you can for yourself. Watching your child thrive might just be the best feeling in the world 
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'...
At poor peace I sing
To you strangers (though song
Is a burning and crested act,
The fire of birds in
The world's turning wood,
For my sawn, splay sounds,)
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Dylan Thomas, Author's Prologue
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