I know exactly why she friend zoned me: she wants to have more kids and I told her I don't want to have children. Up to that point she said we could date, but I don't know that I would have dated her because I've heard she screams at people and I know she spent the night in jail. I only just recently moved back to my home town after four years away and I'm trying to make new friends and date people.

I think part of the problem is that my anxiety disorder keeps me from dating people because when I start getting close to them, my anxiety kicks in and I run away. My therapist told me that I have obsessive thoughts about death and dying because I haven't formed the close relationships to people that others have.