I don't know if these links help, I'm guessing where you live

Divorce | Legal Aid Network of Kentucky
Content / Emergency First Aid / Steps To Protect Yourself During Divorce - S.P.A.R.C.
Divorce Process & Finances: Protecting Yourself When Getting a Divorce
https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclope...rce-32139.html
How to Protect Yourself During Divorce | DivorceNet.com

I'm so sorry you're going through this. im going to go to Starbucks and listen to Janis Joplin on my iPhone and say a prayer for you.