Those statistics are very alarming to me because my bf and I talk about marriage. I'm the BP one in this relationship. My bf is sitting right next to me right now and I told him those statistics and he said "I can see that." That hurt. But I get what he means. I also have BPD which is the ultimate cherry on top! He's gone nuts on me many times. Packed his clothes and all. I never once tried to stop him because deep down I get it. I would want to leave me too! All I ask out of him is compassion and understanding. And he's stayed because he tries. He truly does love me and he jumps through hoops. But I see the look in his eyes that it's not easy.

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