I'm sorry you're going through stuff like that from your husband part of me is really mad at him, because he should know better. He should be respectful and caring, not traumatizing.

Is there anything that might make talking to t about it easier? Maybe communicate it before session somehow so he can help you bring it up? Have you talked to t about the sa?

My t keeps trying to remind me sh like that is not something new to her (she's had clients before who did it) ... and even though I was the first person my gyn saw because of it, she's seen it since...