I can see how he is uber careful with his things to an OCD level because of his upbringing. If you can deal with it, I suppose it's livable. But, I'd think twice about him as a father to having his children one day. He could be overly controlling to them and abusive.

My husband was overly protective, for example, won't allow the kids to get dirty. And I put a stop to that right away, overriding him to let them get as dirty as they want to. I wasn't going to mess with my boys' heads like that, and I laid down the law.