Of course we won't be around. I think, with him being SO hateful and bullying me for the last (at least) half a year and especially now, it will be just fine to make him uncomfortable. He is, right now, trying to make me feel as guilty and small, and unloved as possible. For instance, yesterday he told me that no matter how poor he is from this whole thing, it is better than living with me. He also said that he knows,when it comes to divorce, it is two sided but not this case. In this case, it is all my fault. Instead of disagreeing, I take on his MANY insults as my own, making me feel even more insecure. Shortly before we discussed separating he told me that making love to me was like making love to a corpse. That is my favorite insult but the list goes on and on. He is so unbelievably harsh.