((((((Kimberly))))))

November really can be a hard month. Besides the things that you have associated with it, it's getting dark and cold, and that just intensifies it. We need to stick together and pull through it.

Remember what I said in another thread about that we are entitled to our feelings? That includes you. It's ok to be sad, and when sad things happen, or when we remember sad things, we need to feel that way. Go ahead and let it out. Holding it in makes you feel worse in the long run.

You don't have to always be "the strong one." When you hurt, or just need to lean on someone, I hope that you have someone to support you. Even here, you give a lot of support to the rest of us, but it's fine to need help yourself too. Don't think of it as "dumping on us." You are opening up and letting us get to know you. I'm glad that you shared your feelings.

Love,
Wendy