I terminated with him. I left him because I felt like I was finding the relationship too painful, though at the time I blamed myself, and felt nothing but love for him. Over time I have started to realise his boundaries and arrogance were the cause of a lot of the harm that occurred in therapy with him. And I resent him a bit for that. It makes it hard to read the thread I linked to because I wasn't as kind to myself then, and I didn't see how he hurt me.
Of course your situation is very different so I hope I didn't steer too far OT.