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Originally Posted by Echos Myron
I terminated with him. I left him because I felt like I was finding the relationship too painful, though at the time I blamed myself, and felt nothing but love for him. Over time I have started to realise his boundaries and arrogance were the cause of a lot of the harm that occurred in therapy with him. And I resent him a bit for that. It makes it hard to read the thread I linked to because I wasn't as kind to myself then, and I didn't see how he hurt me.
Of course your situation is very different so I hope I didn't steer too far OT.
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Thank you for your response. I was curious about other kinds of terminations. That must have been incredibly difficult. I don't know if I would have been able to make this choice on my own. I have found my relationship with my T painful as I have strong attachment and maternal transference. She is also a wonderful T and I love her. I just thought I would have more time with her. This came out of the blue and I wish it wasn't happening.