I have looked through his phone maybe over a year ago when he let me. I'm not trying to touch it now or invade his privacy, I just think it's unhealthy to obsess so much over an electronic.

And yes he does invade my space. He would sign in to my apple account and read all my msgs but I figured out how to change the password. It's one sided where I would stay away from his things while he knew all my passwords. It's caused many issues.