Everything in moderation, lol. What I mean by that is he has some good values, but he is taking them way way too far. It's great that he appreciates what he has, but accidents happen. You concerned me when you said he "came right for" you. What did you mean by that, if you don't mind me asking?

My fear isn't so much about the OCD part, it's about what will he do if something does go wrong? For instance, what if you accidentally spilled something on his
phone? I have a tad of OCD with various things, but what he is doing is creating stress for both of you. My grandma used to have intense insane OCD. Even worse than him. She had it with germs, but she had it with other things too. She ended up getting a virus that spread to her brain. All those years of religiously washing her hands and keeping everything spotless (and I mean spotless), and she still got a bad illness. Now she can't even walk on her own and has to always be in a wheelchair. She was only in her 50's when that happened.

So I just don't think it's a good way to live. I think he needs to try to find help for it. We can't protect everything. And really in my opinion even if he is protecting his electronics he is ignoring something else - his health.