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Originally Posted by Emotionally Dead
Everything in moderation, lol. What I mean by that is he has some good values, but he is taking them way way too far. It's great that he appreciates what he has, but accidents happen. You concerned me when you said he "came right for" you. What did you mean by that, if you don't mind me asking?
My fear isn't so much about the OCD part, it's about what will he do if something does go wrong? For instance, what if you accidentally spilled something on his
phone? I have a tad of OCD with various things, but what he is doing is creating stress for both of you. My grandma used to have intense insane OCD. Even worse than him. She had it with germs, but she had it with other things too. She ended up getting a virus that spread to her brain. All those years of religiously washing her hands and keeping everything spotless (and I mean spotless), and she still got a bad illness. Now she can't even walk on her own and has to always be in a wheelchair. She was only in her 50's when that happened.
So I just don't think it's a good way to live. I think he needs to try to find help for it. We can't protect everything. And really in my opinion even if he is protecting his electronics he is ignoring something else - his health.
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He ran at me after I grabbed the laptop like he was going to put his hands on me but he stopped himself. That is very unlike him and scary to see. He trashed the house too and I HAD to call the cops because I was so scared. Our relationship hasn't been doing good and I blame my MI. But I don't think he had the right to act like he did. I know I shouldn't of touched his stuff but I did not expect him to act like THAT. We were apart for a few days and he came back home apologizing. I can forgive but I cannot forget. He said some really awful things to me as well. I told him I want him to get help for his anger towards me.