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Originally Posted by ThisWayOut
I'm sorry you're going through stuff like that from your husband  part of me is really mad at him, because he should know better. He should be respectful and caring, not traumatizing.
Is there anything that might make talking to t about it easier? Maybe communicate it before session somehow so he can help you bring it up? Have you talked to t about the sa?
My t keeps trying to remind me sh like that is not something new to her (she's had clients before who did it) ... and even though I was the first person my gyn saw because of it, she's seen it since... |
Part of me is angry, too, at him, and that we've been together 10 years and I've been letting this go on for a year now.
Anyway, I don't know what could make it easier to talk about with my T. We do talk about my self harm, and he usually asks where I've cut at. So I guess I can just slide it in if he asks next time. It's just very embarrassing for me because it's in such a private area.
He does know about the SA, we have been talking about it at every session lately. I really don't want him to tell me to see my gyn about it, though I already have an apt with my gyn in a few weeks and she knows I cut.