Lostinthewoods, I can relate to that! That sounds similar to what is going on for us. We have been living as a singleton for a while, though knowing that the others were here, but feeling like that were more a semi-integrated part of me. Then the dam burst and things shattered again for a bit. We have never used video much before, but I made one, simply because I wanted to send a message to t from *me*, but then everyone went crazy on making video messages there for a while. It was quite confronting - both because we haven't done the video thing before, and also because they haven't been acting independently for a while. It was so very strange to see them on video and to see that they really are very different. Seeing the switches happening on video was very new for us too.
One who does her job well came and deleted everything again. She has always done that!
I have found that it has been a useful tool in some ways too. I have sent messages to others, they have sent messages to me etc. It has been confronting to realize that all is not as well as it seemed, though.