Hello adashofhope: The Skeezyks welcomes you to PsychCentral! I hope you find whatever amount of time you spend here on PC to be of benefit. There are many knowledgeable & caring members here. The more you post, & reply to other members' posts, the more connected to the community you will become. It can help. (By the way although I'm an old man, otherwise, we actually have quite a bit in common...)