I have this problem. When I get near my boyfriend I start getting really anxious. I don't know if it's normal. Like if he wants to have sex I kinda panic about it. I've had sex before and never had this. Why now. If he hovers over me I panic, too. I keep having flashbacks of being raped when this happens. How can I tell him? Should I tell him? He promises me he's not gonna rape me, as he knows my past, but this doesn't ease my fears any.