When things fell apart when i was 29 i colored my hair fire engine red and then purple and then shaved it. Dramatic hair changes are usually a sign that i'm going thru something. I'm 50 now and haven't dyed my hair in three years. My last shade was blue due to a romantic fiasco. I don't have the energy to dress up so i'm mostly neat-casual, no make-up, no jewelry. I like the natural look.