I think I might have just had a realisation. I might email you. Maybe it wouldn't have made any difference even if you had told me you wouldn't shout at me if I had dropped it. Maybe these things are best learnt through experience. Maybe i should have just dropped it and seen what you did (ok maybe not!!) Maybe I need to learn that sometimes people will shout but if I am stronger in myself I can cope with it better without it seeming like an attack against me and me believeing that the relationship is beyond repair. Maybe. Maybe.