People can and do kill others with food. First, By being a bad example and upping the acceptable amount of pounds a person carries. I can be 30lbs overweight and have people tell me I'm thin and should gain weight. Parents who overfeed their children or simply showing a bad example which the kid thrn follows into adulthood.

I'm gaining weight like crazy right now and all I can think about is the example I show my kids and husband by letting this happen to me. I'm self hating a lot.

Don't get me wrong, I know I see things differently from the majority and am aware of my own bias. But I see your point too, and sometimes I'd be in your camp. But right now, I think total legalization is the way to go.