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Old May 10, 2016, 08:38 PM
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Originally Posted by runlola72 View Post
As for the healing experience, yeah, what will that look like, exactly? Will I be more confident? Less needy and more self-reliant? These are questions I should ask, and I guess we all should.
I was thinking more about what exactly is the process whereby transference is turned into healing or growth. I'd like to see a therapist flowchart this.

1. Start.
2. Client professes love, longing, infatuation for therapist.
3. Therapist says "oh, that's transference".
4. Client loses their mind.
5. Client leaves therapy ready for a new life filled with joy.
6. End.

I'd like to know what are the steps between 4 and 5. What is the method, etc.