I don't think you need to be told you're being childish and irresponsible , and I certainly hope your T doesn't do that ( and it does seem to be what she's been doing lately ). I feel for you a great deal. From my own experience , my friendship with my BF of 25 years is no longer working. She is dismissive , condescending and patronising toward me. I can no longer say anything due to inappropriate responses. I've told her how I feel , she did it again. But its not malicious - she has her own issues. I know I need to let go of it , I keep saying to myself that I deserve better. There were better times , but it has gone wrong. And I'm trying to hang on to it , I'm trying to ignore the warning signs that I'm seeing.. Oh , and I'm about 4 and about 7 and about 15 - and I'm hurt and angry. No advice for you Mona , just and