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Old Sep 19, 2007, 06:07 PM
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Very blunt - and to the point!!!!! Thank you!!!

I'm seeing a NLP T for the overeating, to which I've lost 7.3 kgs - have not mentioned this current situation to this T. This T, I think, is not a psychotherapist, I think a life coach???

I have to be completely honest, my other two friends (have mentioned about before, whom are both living with their T's), are dating two from HIS practice...........I dearly don't want to lose their friendship, they too were going to be at the lunch and Tom, The other T with his girlfriend............I guess they were all thinking, "one happy group".

My friends, Kerry Anne and Jane (ones in relationship with their T), phoned last night and don't see my concerns or the 'big deal' it seems to be to me - they see it as normal!

Logically, I guess he wants to continue this relationship and they are using my friends to make me feel guilty! I need to somehow stay away from my friends, but I feel I need them, I do deeply care and love them.....

Thanks, I will re-read how I felt before to remind me!

SSR

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