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Originally Posted by susan900
So happy for you Echos Myron.. why cant they talk about it? its saying in all the information about therapy.. that is is completely normal to have feeling for your therapist.. its not fun for us, to be feeling like this is very embarasing, and painful.. I think its interesting, that that while you had a break you was able to see things more clearly. Good luck.. I am going to see therapist tomorrow, and not sure what |I will tell him. yet.. I am trying to protect myself.  |
He was uncomfortable with it, and I think it was that simple. He kept contradicting himself about whether he believed in transference and whether he saw any value in discussing my feelings. He said "I don't see any value in talking about those feelings in therapy" and the when I reminded him of that at termination he was like "well I think there's some value in it" but by that time it was too late, the damage was done and I was working through it with a better T.