I am confused on your concept of judgement. If someone is mistreating or using you, I don't see how and why you would refer to acknowledging that fact as judgement.

By this logic the only way is to live is to be submissive and accepting bad treatment as anything other than that could be viewed as judgement. I am
not sure what you mean by what you say about others is a reflection of you.

Sure if you go around gossiping about random people it's bad but acknowledging the fact that someone is doing mean things isn't reflection of you whatsoever.

You have kids. Would you teach them that accepting bad treatment is a good thing because it's the right way to live?

Do you think you deserve bad treatment or you never observe truly nice relationship? You don't need to judge but where is the enjoyment in being treated badly?

It seems that you spend several posts defending bad behavior and pretty much saying it is the only way to live. I just really disagree with it. Have you not met nice women who would treat you well?

You mentioned peace but one can have peace in a good relationship. Do you believe you need to be treated badly in order to be peaceful and content ? Why?

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