Hello all, I'm going to approach a sensitive subject for not only me, but probably many more on this topic. So I'll introduce myself and the "issues" face.
I'm 33, relatively thin figure, have a child etc, so needless to say I have the "mom" bod and I'm sooo self conscious about it. I wasn't as self conscious before my child was born, her dad did see the "before, during and after" pregnancy body, but we aren't together anymore. Now let's fast forward to now and what I worry about. For starters, I have asymmetrical breasts (that pregnancy swelling did a number on to say the least.) I feel like they're so ugly. I have been in a very serious relationship for 3 years and have never been comfortable enough to strip down completely in front of him (and he has never pressured me to either, nor ever given me a reason to feel self conscious.) I even wear a sports bra to bed. I've always had a low self esteem too and recently found out I have adult ADHD. And would like to discuss something else without getting too personal, but there's a part of me that's also self conscious of "the downstairs area". That also changed after my pregnancy (I was always self conscious about it anyway cause I think it's ugly too). Anyway, if anyone else feels the same way, or have some tips on how to deal with or over come these issues/concerns I'd be grateful I never have discussed this in depth with my bf. He knows I'm a bit self conscious (if not more that just a bit) but again, I've never talked about it openly.