Thanks all. I guess its so much more complicated than whether to tell or not. You have to feel safe. I dont feel that way with my new T and thats the problem She doesnt have sensativities to listen to me or to stop telling many of her endless stories. I think its time for me to find another one. Ugh.. I never truely feel like she is really listening to me, its like she's just listening enough to think of another one of her stories. Well... As you can see.. I didnt tell. but I think i sorta made the best choice.