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Old May 12, 2016, 11:43 AM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
I like that idea of "saying it in parentheses," since that would probably apply to the way I often say things!

I know exactly what you mean about afraid of caring or loving someone--and expressing it to them makes it more real. (see: my recent posts in Dear T!)
Yes! Expressing it totally makes it more real! As long as it's in my head I can pretend it's not true. Definitely a defence against abandonment, probably from childhood. I've been following your posts on Dear T, I know you're going through similar stuff; it seems like you're much braver at expressing this stuff than me though!
Thanks for this!
LonesomeTonight