So that they don't stick out like a sore thumb and cause problems at work you might want to train the child, since you mentioned they we're out during work. Obviously we are best self managers so unless your in a switch that is that bad you might want to go home sick if it that bad. Get back on task is the best thing you can do, we are fighters by nature our survival instinct kicks we like money don't expect perfection we got goals. Don't allow someone to push you to the brink because they werent externally told everything like a boss, classroom, or peer /mentor, like we got time to have side discussion to bring every up to speed on DID/PTSD. Some younger parts actually excel on the job I'm not speaking about those parts, I'm just saying if there something your trying to change that is hampering your better.