When I told my T I love him I was so nervous. I had to do it thru a text bc I couldn't say it out loud. I was so afraid it was wrong and bad. He totally got it though. And responded so kindly. I've never told him in person. Actually that was the only time I mentioned it. He references my caring about him sometimes. Bc of what happened w my former T , admitting my care and love for my current T put me in such a vulnerable position. I felt I trusted T though. It helped me so much as well when he told me he felt parental transference for his T when he was in his own long term therapy.

I was wondering if you might be trying to push these feelings away bc of what turned out with your former T? Are you maybe afraid it will not be healing and/or healthy? I read your other T did not handle your feelings well and it put you in a lot of distress. Just a thought

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