So let me get this straight....


It's allllll about her. What she needs or feels or is going through and your needs and feelings are inconsequential?


On some level it is healthy to believe that others are not responsible for your feelings, but you're taking it at least one or two steps too far.


By your logic, I should not blame my bf if I feel angry and betrayed if I found out he cheated on me.

By your logic, I would have "no right" to express my negative feelings as he is not responsible for them... ???


Seriously, do you even listen to yourself? And I don't mean that in a sarcastic way, its a genuine question, but not one you have to answer here..