I'm in a similar position I guess - expressed concerns about the effectiveness of therapy and broached the possibility of ending it last session. He does enough talking (20 percentish), but as we parted ways a couple of days ago, he asked what I had learned from the session and I had to admit the answer was nothing, although he did reassure me that my general confusion is the result of a lot of strange environmental factors or something along those lines...anyway...there are some issues I haven't begun to go into yet...and if I do, I'd like it to be with this therapist rather than some other one. So I scheduled another appointment anyway...but it can take a long time (and subsequently money) to decide when to tackle these things head on and it could just be futile...in short - I'm as clueless as you...