I have always seen my T at her house – for three years. One time I had called her to reschedule and she said, “Oh, and don’t get a shock when you see the For Sale sign out the front of my house – I’m moving house but keeping the same practice, so nothing changes.” I felt weird about it but then okay, especially when at the next session she made a point of saying, “Nothing at all will change, only the room.”

Now, she is moving to some office which she shares with other psychologists. This was okay, but now I find out she’s pretty much only working 2 days, and not even full days, when before it was 4 days. I was in crisis yesterday and rang her and she said we should meet earlier than two weeks (which was when my next appointment was scheduled) but seemed kind of reluctant. She said her only appointment was on Monday at the crack of dawn. I was kind of scattered, so agreed before I realised. Then I was thinking, how is it going to go with her cramming all her clients into 2 not even full days? And obviously she will have to arrive earlier than she planned on Monday to meet me as her first appointment which I feel guilty about.

I am just worried about her not having much time anymore, and extremely angry that she lied to me, telling me nothing would change when in fact everything has changed. She didn’t even tell me she was moving to an office environment. I assumed her new office would be at her new house. I’m really not good with being shaken up and I don’t feel safe with this anymore. What should I do with these feelings? I doubt my social anxiety will allow me to tell her I feel betrayed.