I'm sorry you haven't been able to walk away from this abusive relationship yet mona. Again, I would urge you to consider the benefit a competent T would have on your learning. I have learnt so much from my T because he models a healthy therapy relationship and good boundaries which I will carry with me when I become a practitioner.
This says it all:
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
T asked me a favour at end of session. I couldn't really believe it after everything went so horrible. It was quite a big favour and I wondered why she didn't ask her family. I don't mind doing it but it is a strange request and means I see her outside of session. I actually could not believe she asked me after that session.
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She is a despicable manipulative abuser. I don't often give direct advice on PC, but please don't do whatever it is she wants you to do. Creating a dual relationship on top of everything else will be great for her, but extremely harmful for you. And when it ends up hurting you/going wrong, who do you think she will blame?
The gall of the woman. Honestly. It saddens me to see you being hurt unnecessarily week after week mona, it really does.