In my experience whatever is wrong in a relationship didn't just happen. It was always there. People were just too in love to notice or were in denial then it hits them. I've read somewhere that most marriages fail because people aren't compatible. If people marry based on compatibility more than just based on being crazy in love we would have fewer divorces. My exhusband is a great person and great father and we were crazy about each other yet we barely made it 5 years.

Even our adult daughter laughs how we should be an example why people shouldn't marry only because they are in love. We were 100% not compatible with zero in common. We are only similar in how we parent but that's not enough to sustain anything

I don't know about sex though. I am not sure if you are missing affection or strictly sex. I am 50 and don't need that much sex as long as I have affection. I am not sure. I know everyone is different

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