I had sorta the same thing. When we first met i felt in my wifes eyes I could do no wrong. There were troubling signs but what got me the most was how do I ever live up to this long term.

Now way down the road, I "behave like a 15 year old", Im "alot like her ex husband", and I "have a sense of entitlement". Sex is non-existant, I cheated on her, we cannot even talk about the most mundane of things without arguing.

Im not trying to be discouraging but, my feeling was always I know the day will come when she hates me as much as she loves me now. It did, and its HARD!!!