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Originally Posted by Echos Myron
I'm sorry you haven't been able to walk away from this abusive relationship yet mona. Again, I would urge you to consider the benefit a competent T would have on your learning. I have learnt so much from my T because he models a healthy therapy relationship and good boundaries which I will carry with me when I become a practitioner.
This says it all:
She is a despicable manipulative abuser. I don't often give direct advice on PC, but please don't do whatever it is she wants you to do. Creating a dual relationship on top of everything else will be great for her, but extremely harmful for you. And when it ends up hurting you/going wrong, who do you think she will blame?
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This. Read this again. Just because you agreed to do something, does that mean you ALWAYS have to do it???? This T is destroying the boundaries of this relationship. What about your boundaries? Are you important? You agreed to do this thing under emotional circumstances. SHE is the T in this situation. Was it responsible of her to ask this thing? Are you NEVER allowed to change your mind or assert your own boundaries?
I feel like I am getting angry at this T for you. She got red in the face and yelled. Did you? Would you be willing to?